I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: OVER the past few years, I’ve started finding other men very attractive despite the fact I have only ever had relationships with women. Could I be gay or bisexual, and not have … Read more
Bladder troubles stop me from dating and I’ve wet myself twice at work …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE the menopause, I can’t hold on when I need to pee, so I have to wear incontinence pads as big as nappies. It makes me so embarrassed and is stopping me from dating. I’m an … Read more
My boyfriend is desperate for us to have a baby – but I’m not ready to be a mum …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: I AM finally beginning to live my life as an independent woman but my boyfriend is desperate for us to have a baby. The whole scenario terrifies me. It’s not … Read more
My girlfriend is making digs in public about sex being too quick …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend has started really grumbling about my performance. When we have sex, I don’t ever make it to the one, never mind the two-minute mark and she is not happy. She’s started to make snide comments … Read more
My daughter is stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship with an addict …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: EVERY payday, my daughter’s drug addict partner makes her take out cash to pay off his debt to his dealers. I’m worried sick for her. She’s in a violent and emotionally abusive relationship with a loser, but … Read more
My mental health has hit rock bottom eight months into my retirement …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: EIGHT months into my retirement, my mental health has hit rock bottom. My wife and I are both in our 60s, with a lovely home and great kids. I had looked forward to retiring, but I’m finding … Read more
I was horrified when my neighbour ripped apart my late husband’s garden …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: RETURNING from visiting my grandchildren recently, I was horrified to find my neighbour had hacked down all the mature bushes and shrubs my late husband had planted in my garden. Now it feels like I can’t relax … Read more
My lazy daughter-in-law drove me out of my own house …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE I made the decision to move out and live separately from my wife, I’ve never been happier. Now I finally live in a clean and peaceful space, but I fear it’ll be at the cost of our relationship. … Read more
I’m at my wits end with the constant bullying from my aggressive partner …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER years of dealing with constant bullying from my aggressive partner, I’m at my wits end. No matter what, in her eyes I can never do anything right, and I’ve had enough. I’m 65, she’s 60, … Read more
Life is so hard hard that I’m stealing wine from the supermarket to cope …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: LIFE has got so hard that I’m stealing bottles of wine from the supermarket to cope. I drink at least a bottle every night, but I can’t seem to stop – either the drinking or … Read more