My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

DEAR DEIDRE: MY toy boy lover is abusive and even blames me for his porn habit. I know I’m not the problem but sometimes I feel like I’m going mad. It’s making me feel really depressed.  I’m 49 and he’s 38. We’ve been together for three years. He has a lovely side. He can be … Read more

My boyfriend deserts me every Christmas Day

My boyfriend deserts me every Christmas Day

DEAR DEIDRE: EVERY Christmas Eve my boyfriend spoils me, lavishing me with generous gifts, a fancy meal and a night in a hotel followed with fantastic sex. It will sound ungrateful but after 13 years of this routine, I’ve had enough! All I want for Christmas is some company. Although the night… My boyfriend deserts … Read more

I left my wife as she drinks too much but I still love her

I left my wife as she drinks too much but I still love her

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER putting up with my wife’s excessive boozing for years, I told her I was leaving, hoping it might make her change. But she kept on drinking. I am 53 and my wife is 48. We have been married for 18 years. I love her but it feels as though I’m being punished … Read more

I fear for my son after meeting internet girlfriend halfway across the UK

I fear for my son after meeting internet girlfriend halfway across the UK

DEAR DEIDRE: MY son really wants to meet his internet girlfriend but I’m scared to let him out of my sight. He’s 16 and studying for his GCSEs. He’s hoping to go to college next year to study sports. I never used to worry about him but last year he had his new iPhone snatched … Read more

I installed a secret camera in my home to catch my husband drinking

I installed a secret camera in my home to catch my husband drinking

I installed a secret camera in my home to catch my husband drinking …C0NTINUE READING HERE>>> DEAR DEIDRE: INSTALLING a secret camera in my home proved what I’d suspected: my husband is an alcoholic who has been secretly drinking. I’m so worried about him and the effects on his health, as well as on our … Read more

I got home with the Christmas shopping just as my husband walked out the door

I got home with the Christmas shopping just as my husband walked out the door

DEAR DEIDRE: THE Christmas lights are up and the festive decorations out, but this time of year makes me feel so blue after my husband dropped a bombshell three days before Christmas last year. I’d just arrived home with all the food shopping to find him waiting in the kitchen with his bags packed.  To … Read more

I’m blindsided over my hatred for my situationship’s new boyfriend

I'm blindsided over my hatred for my situationship's new boyfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER years of mixed messages and empty promises, the girl of my dreams chose another man over me. Now I feel so blindsided over my hatred for him that it’s driving me insane.  I’m 28, she’s 27, and we first met two years ago when a mutual friend introduced us at a house … Read more

I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay

I've started admiring other men's bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I'm gay

I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: OVER the past few years, I’ve started finding other men very attractive despite the fact I have only ever had relationships with women. Could I be gay or bisexual, and not have … Read more

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: THE new personal trainer I have is getting full-on and suggestive with me, and I’m not sure if I like it. I do find him attractive, and we’ve kissed, but he’s married and I’m … Read more

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it's my fault

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife had an affair and somehow it seems it is my fault. She’s a master at gaslighting and manipulation. We’re both approaching 40 and have been married for ten years. … Read more