DEAR DEIDRE: MY toy boy lover is abusive and even blames me for his porn habit. I know I’m not the problem but sometimes I feel like I’m going mad. It’s making me feel really depressed. I’m 49 and he’s 38. We’ve been together for three years. He has a lovely side. He can be … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER putting up with my wife’s excessive boozing for years, I told her I was leaving, hoping it might make her change. But she kept on drinking. I am 53 and my wife is 48. We have been married for 18 years. I love her but it feels as though I’m being punished … Read more
I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: OVER the past few years, I’ve started finding other men very attractive despite the fact I have only ever had relationships with women. Could I be gay or bisexual, and not have … Read more
My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: THE new personal trainer I have is getting full-on and suggestive with me, and I’m not sure if I like it. I do find him attractive, and we’ve kissed, but he’s married and I’m … Read more
My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife had an affair and somehow it seems it is my fault. She’s a master at gaslighting and manipulation. We’re both approaching 40 and have been married for ten years. … Read more
I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE met the most incredible man. He is the best lover, is considerate, adventurous and has an exciting life. I am ready to throw in my steady but boring married life for him, but there … Read more
My boyfriend broke up with me after a year because I’m ‘too old’ for him …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER a year together, my boyfriend broke up with me because I’m ‘too old’ for him. To add insult to injury, he told me he’d never thought of me as his proper girlfriend. I’m … Read more
I am having steamy sex with my boss after husband cheated and I feel so ashamed …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: I’M having secret steamy sex with a rich married businessman, who has employed me as his overpaid cleaner. He is almost 20 years older than me — and while it is thrilling, I … Read more
I can’t keep erection with new girlfriend and I am terrified of letting her down …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER finally finding the courage to dump my ex, who just used me as a cash machine, I have a wonderful new girlfriend – but I am scared I’ll ruin things as I can’t … Read more
My girlfriend is making digs in public about sex being too quick …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend has started really grumbling about my performance. When we have sex, I don’t ever make it to the one, never mind the two-minute mark and she is not happy. She’s started to make snide comments … Read more