DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my long-term lover finally left his wife, I was thrilled. But I’m still his sexy secret 12 months on and I’m losing patience. We began our affair at work five years ago. At first it was strictly fun. We would go for lunch on company time and end up in a hotel, … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: THOUGH my girlfriend and I have a good sex life, I’m obsessed with taking things further by having a threesome with her best friend. What my girlfriend doesn’t know is that her friend works part-time at a lap dancing club — and I’m one of her regulars. I’m 28 and my… I dream … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend hasn’t told his “work wife” about me, and I’m hurt. I’m 34, he’s 35. We met a year ago on a dating app. He’s so close to the receptionist at his job that he refers to her as his “work wife”. I didn’t mind until I realised he was hiding me … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: I FEEL so guilty for stealing someone else’s work and passing it off as my own. My teacher thought it was so good that she gave me top marks. Now I can’t sleep at night and don’t know what to do. I’m a 17-year-old boy, doing A levels. Last term, I was given … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: HAVE I committed gross misconduct? I’m the manager of a shop and during the Christmas rush, I mistakenly gave a customer a 25 per cent staff discount instead of the five per cent loyalty saving. When I noticed my error, I immediately told my boss. I expected a mild telling off, but… I … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: SEX with my boss was a thrill, until she started wanting more. Now I want to cool things off, but she won’t leave me alone, and I’m scared that if I say no my job will be at risk. I’m a 28-year-old man, and my female boss is 40. I work for an … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: MY mother-in-law is making my life a misery. Yet my husband won’t do anything to help and always defends her. It’s spoiling our relationship. I’m 45 and he’s 47. My mother-in-law is 70. We’ve been married for 18 years and I’ve tried so hard to put up with her but, if… My mother-in-law … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER a minor argument, a girl I really like has stopped replying to my texts. I am 19 and she is 18. We met through a mutual friend a month ago and I thought everything was going well. But we had a minor argument about where we were going to meet up for … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex was so full of hatred for my new wife when our daughter was born that she sent us vile messages, which nearly made me take my own life. I’m 43 and my new wife is 39. It all got too much. My wife already had post-natal depression and I was trying … Read more
DEAR DEIDRE: I HATE my job, and now my only decent colleague is leaving. I’m not sure how I’ll survive without her. My workplace is so toxic the only thing that makes it bearable is my co-worker. I’m a 43-year-old woman. My soon-to-be ex colleague is 38, and we’ve worked together for three… I hate … Read more